Nowadays I get personal mails, messages and chat session asking me questions like this
1) "I saw ur blog, and found interesting, but what do u expect from that , as ur married".
2) what are u looking for? U r married, u have family, then why?
3) I think u lack something in ur marriage, i.e. Why u r writing in blog?
4) U r lonely....after marrg? U can contact me, my mailid is :jghjd@gmfh
I am fed up with this......really....
This is to all the guys who have such doubts:
1) I have a very happy marriage(which was a love marriage)!!!!!!!!!!
2) I am writing blog to get friends opinion on my thots and not to look for another husband or extramarital relationship.
3)For heavens sake, a married woman DO have and CAN have their own life and friends.
exactly ...married woman do have everything like the remaining women...just ignore the mails and keep smiling swathi...i too get hel lotta mails like that...just laugh on it and forget it or make fun of it LOL
ReplyDeleteHa! those are some of the frustrated people out there who dont even know how to behave in cyberworld(off course even in realworld). Just ignore/block them, dont even reply.
ReplyDeleteAnyway these people are interesting breed. :)
i dint know ter ppl thought ter is a relationship b/w marriage and blogging..how sick..
ReplyDeleteCorrect Swathi, I am with you.
ReplyDeleteThese mails you are getting comes from Psycho people who cant think anything else.
Just ignore them !
That is really sad. Luckily i dont geet mails like this..although that would piss me off too...Just ignore it dear and keep the good work up!
ReplyDeleteKeep the spirit. Keep your blog on and going. Dont change your intesrestes coz of some sick people around and aslo u need not care for each and every ones feelings unless u dont have your own. :)
ReplyDeletethanks guys for the support.usually ppl who comments on my blog wont behave like this.some others read my blog and sent me msgs with weird ideas! i made this issue public,cos i think there are still others who may have this idea! (and madhu gave me all the moral suport...thanks alot!)
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha.Swathi ,
ReplyDeleteU got lots of fans.Thats good news.It means u 've gained star status.These ppl r crazy about u.Can I 've ur autograph.Plz .
Keep blogging.Nothing to worry when u 've strong friends like u 've now.
What Madhu says is right.
ReplyDeleteThanks,
- Ranjit
just 3 letters i wanna type!!!
ReplyDeleteLOL
[was damn funny]....lol again! ;)
Just ignore the small road blocks and keep blogging.
ReplyDeleteYou blog really well...
hehe.... that is ofcourse a common problem
ReplyDeleteyou are one of my favorite bloggers.....
ReplyDeletedont get affected by those mails.....
keep going and waiting to read your next blog
Ur blogs are quite good! I just feel that knowing that many people all around the world know u and appreciate ur blogs is a good enough reason for u to feel good about urself and keep blogging..... good to kinow u havent stopped blogging after getting those silly comments.... Well Done my friend!
ReplyDeleteWhen one is married, one is fully evolved and matured and is above such narrow minded critism. People who have a single track mind about a male female relationship are to be pitied. In this day and age how is it possible for such persons to exist I wonder!!!!!
ReplyDeleteu r ahuman first, then a girl and then comes the marriage/relationships. through away the bad comments. BE happy Always. Happy Married life.
ReplyDeleteSometimes ppl say I'm male 20. Hi and I say bye.
ReplyDeleteor I'm female 0.2 ;-)